Wow we are already here???

Kurtis and I have been married for three years now. YAY!! I know it is not that long but it is exciting. We started dating almost four years ago. It all started with a 5 hour talk over the phone. Then there was a great first date. We fell in love quickly and effortlessly. He asked me to marry him about 8 months later and then 4 long months after that we had an awesome wedding. That was three years ago? We have a beautiful baby boy and a place that feels like home. I love this. I love being married to Kurtis he is kind and thoughtful and he is such a great dad. I love being Lynks mom. I love our little house. The first three years was great. I wonder what the next three years will bring us.

aabaabaabaa....baabaabaabaa

(Lynk is saying this sound all day long)

When a man loves a women

Some one very special told Kurtis that he was easy to love. It wasn't me. It did get me to thinking though. Kurtis is really easy to love. It really didn't take me long to figure that out. He is the most thoughtful, considerate loving man ever. I am blessed to have been smart enough to marry him. Lynk is blessed to have him for a dad.

When a man loves a women...he calls her in the middle of his work day to say I miss you and I love you. He puts the baby down for a nap, even though it takes twice as long when he does it. He holds her in the middle of the living room floor when their dog dies. He tells her she is beautiful everyday. He cares about what she has to say. He works A LOT so she can be home with there kids. He eats vegetables for her. He asks her what she needs. He makes her laugh daily.

Kurtis Gibson. I don't love him just because he is good at loving me, but it does help.

IS HE A FUTURE GAMER?

We have come to find that Lynk is already interested in gaming. His preference is the Xbox 360. He loves the controller....we tried to give him riley's controller but he didn't want it. He wanted daddy's. Of course this makes us very happy and proud. Well Kurtis doesn't like dying because Lynk is trying to put the right trigger button in his mouth, but it is cute.

My life at home

It has been almost four and a half months. I love my little Lynkers. He is a joy. He is amazing. He brings (happy) tears to my eyes daily. How do you love someone this much? I knew I wanted to be a mom at a very young age. I never knew it would be this great. Hard...? YES! Exhausting...? YES . But it is the most wonderful thing I have ever experienced.

When I was pregnant people would say "enjoy your life now because soon its going to be over" It would basically piss me off. Wow what a positive thing to say to a women about to have a baby. I felt bad for there kids (hopefully they didn't have any). My life is not over. Sure I can't do what ever I want to when ever I want to do it. It is almost better that way. It teaches me to be selfless and patient.

I am still home with him. Thanks to Kurtis.

What does Lynk do now.....

he laughs a lot

smiles at everyone

grabs toys off the floor and puts them in his mouth

loves to sit (he can almost do it by himself)

talks to his daddy on the phone

loves books

loves baths

roles over

plays with his feet

sticks out his tongue

Eugene

Our beautiful dog Eugene has left us. One moment here alive and well and the next lifeless and alone. Kurtis found him in our backyard. We have no idea what happened or why he died so young but he did. I only had 3 years with him but he was my baby. I loved him so much. I don't even think I knew how much I loved him until now. He was a big part of this family and I want him back. When Kurtis told me what had happened I cried, and cried and cried. Kurtis held me as we sat on the floor until I was calm and he cried too. I thought it was my fault. We should have taken him to the vet, I shouldn't have put him out side, I shouldn't have yelled at him , he didn't get enough attention. The truth is it wasn't any ones fault, we are great pet owners who loved him so much and cared about him. It is just a part of life. We gave our other dog cracker to a good family about three months ago, because of a move, and that was hard too. But this is so much different, we had no time to prepare. We had no last good byes. I know people might think he was just a dog but my heart is still broken for him. He was supposed to play with my little boy. He was supposed to be here longer and I am going to miss him.

Eugene...

...loved to play with the broom

...pounced on the light a laser made

...loved taking walks

...hated bikes

...played with Kurtis on our bed in the morning

...loved Riley Mills, he would follow her around non stop when she was here

...was a super hero with Christian

Bubbles

BUBBLES ARE FUN!!

chase them

love them

pop them

run from them

eat them